Ohhh man, it has been a long time since I have posted anything on here, I basically created the blog and then got busy doing other things. When I chose the name from chaos, to beauty I had no idea that, that saying would literally be what my life consisted of. It goes from chaos to something beautiful, all the way back to chaos. In the last year I have experienced one of the best moments of my life, and one of the worst.
On November 18, 2016, I married my best friend in the Salt Lake LDS Temple. I got up that morning and was so nervous because I couldn’t believe that I was getting married. I had always dreamt of getting married, but for some reason I had convinced myself that it was never going to happen for me. I dated all the wrong guys for years, and I never believed that someone would fall in love with me. I was always the best friend, or that girl that was getting played. My heart had been broken so many times that I couldn’t believe that I was marrying the man who healed it.
Together as husband and wife, we started our new life.
Fast forward to July 17, 2017. The day that my heart broke all over again. When I was 13 years old, I lost my older brother in a car accident. I cried, I was angry, I was numb for years, but I endured. I made it through to the other side and was stronger because of it. "I did it, I endured my trial in life." Yet there was more to come. I never in a million years thought at the age of 25 that I would be doing it all over again. I was wrong, I now have lost both of my brothers. I am honestly at a loss for words, other than my beauty has reversed back to chaos. Again I cry, I am angry, and I am numb. But I will endure. I will endure yet another major trial in my life and push to come out on the other side.
How do you handle your hardships? Do you let your chaos turn to beauty? Do you try to see the light instead of the darkness? Let me help you. And in return I am hoping that all of you can help me too. Chaos can be taken over by beauty, and that is what I intend to do.
Hun I knew both of your brothers and they were amazing souls!!! Just as you are too!!! My sister died in a car accident the year before your older brother. It's so hard, but it is indeed things we need to endure. It's heart wrenching! We are stronger with it. We have experienced great losses in our lives... But we learn to look at the beauty! Love you girl
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